My Ideal Partner Life

An ideal husband would be a mortal who is an ideal companion. Does it appear that I am run around in circles? I hope it does not. Through the traditional habit of a husband is polar from that of a wife,the qualities of a person be not sex-oriented,they are person-oriented. What do I want in the person I marry? My list may be a persistent one but it is sound in its priorities. I want the art object I choose as a husband to be generous,to demand a sense of humor and to be trusting and trustworthly. I would resembling to build our birth on affection and venerate and on fatten up frankness.A tall order? Let me explain myself. Affection and respect put together are the essence of love. They are more long-wearing than the euphoria of romantic love linked to physical attraction. It is true that salmon pink contributes a great deal towards lifes pleasantness,but unreflecting,unthinking beauty has nix to recommend itself. Respect in relationship is very importand,and note I mea n respect ,note awe or fear or either other feeling but respect which includes self-respect and can be stretched a long way to cover the crevices or feelings.I would standardised my future husband to be frank with me and to discuss financial,emotional and other problems with me. for if on that point is any ground on which I cannot thread, or any critical point when I find the door closed against me,or any time when whisper conversation take place,or papers and letters are kept away,or I look askance and dont get a reply, then there a lies the beginning distrust and rift. A marriage is a companionship,it extends into old age and can mature into a relationship where haggling need not be exchanged and still complete apprehension my exist.It is a relationship which cannot be built on lies or half-truths. When I use the word frank I do not unaccompanied mean emotional friendship through they too are included. Is it not more grateful that my friends of the days when I was not yet unify be known to my husband than that I spring a strike on him or leave him to work his imagination in different directions? Similarly I would like to know about my husbands friends-men and women.Frankness should extend to all money matters. I should know (and so should be) what our economics position is. A marriage is the basic of family,it grows and matures and strengthens over the years. It cannot do so when the partner concerned pull in different directions. A home is aplace where on feels there should be uneasiness,no appearances to maintain, where one should feel light to express onself and ones own true self. This is possible if there is some basic enerosity in the members of the family for generosity backs up the desire to understand,to be less critical and more forgiving in ones approach. Dont you know that a grim man is scum bag and unforgiving? There are numerous little problems which can be laughed away. At times this capacity to take things lightly,to see the funn y fount of an otherwise grim situation may cement a relationship much more than anything else. Laughter keeps one young. It is the best medicine. So lets live and laugh together.